Two hunts, two different outcomes
Cole took Jett and later his nephew Marshall into the Iowa woods during youth season, with Nick helping film the earlier hunts. Jett chose to take a doe after passing up the chance to shoot a buck in poor light on opening morning. Marshall later got an opportunity at a buck in the oak timber. Both hunts gave the boys something to be proud of—and something to learn.
What happens after the shot matters
Marshall’s shot hit high and initially left the buck alive. Cole and the boys had to follow up and end the animal’s suffering. It was uncomfortable, especially for the kids. Cole did not brush that aside. He explained that taking responsibility for an animal includes acting quickly and respectfully when a shot does not go as intended. That is a hard lesson, but an important one.
The work is part of hunting
The boys helped with recovery and field dressing, and they got the full experience of hauling a deer through muddy ground. They also learned more about donating venison through Iowa’s HUSH program. None of that fits into a single hero photo, but it is where a lot of real hunting education happens.
There is always a what-if
After Marshall’s buck, Jett wondered whether he might have gotten that chance if he had passed his doe. Cole understood the thought, but reminded him that hindsight can make any decision look different. Jett had chosen his deer, made a good shot, and helped create the opportunity for Marshall to hunt. Those were real successes, not hypothetical ones.
Teach the process, not just the prize
Cole shared an analogy about enjoying the game rather than only the prize at the end. It fit Jett perfectly: the kid wanted to keep going hunting. If young hunters learn to enjoy the preparation, patience, teamwork, responsibility, and stories, they have something much more durable than a single set of antlers.
Frequently asked questions
How can you help a young hunter handle a difficult recovery?
Stay calm, prioritize humane action and safety, and explain what happened in an age-appropriate way.
How do you keep youth hunting fun without focusing only on antlers?
Let young hunters help make decisions and celebrate learning, time outdoors, and responsible choices.
Listen to the Full Conversation
This story was adapted from a firsthand hunting experience shared on the Killerwinds Podcast. From the decisions made in the moment to the lessons learned along the way, these are the experiences that shape us as hunters. Watch or listen to the full conversation to hear the story as it was originally told.
